Resilience In Us

A Reflection / Story

Finding a New Mission

by Pat Santoro

Military ServicePatricia Santoro — US Navy, Ocean Systems Technician, 4 years active duty
Outer Island, one of the Thimble Islands off the coast of Branford, CT
"It's one of my favorite photos that I've taken on OI. I love the sun, the flag, and the life preserver."Outer Island — Stewart B. McKinney National Wildlife Refuge, Branford, CT

Six years after retiring from an ivy league university as a research administrator, I have found my calling and a new passion on a little island off the coast of Branford, CT.

In May of 2025 I became a volunteer with the Stewart B. McKinney National Wildlife Refuge (SBMNWR) and Friends of Outer Island. Outer Island is one of the Thimble Islands; the only island opened to the public. It's much smaller than San Nicolas Island, CA, where I was stationed for four years in the US Navy, but it feels similar.

I have found that volunteering as an island docent, giving people tours, sharing the history of the island with visitors, and providing island maintenance, while helping to protect the shore birds that nest there, has opened up a new love for me as I approach my seventh decade.

It feels so wonderful to be part of nature while engaging with the public, and fellow volunteers and refuge staff.

Seek inside and you shall find.......

Resilience In Us

An inspirational space of resilience - for meaning  and purpose discovery, moment to moment and until our last breath, inspired by my beloved husband's work with fellow veterans, his colleagues,  Viktor Frankl, and my inspiring veteran buddies and acquaintances.  This is also a personal project for my Viktor Frankl Logotherapy diplomate, putting what I have learned to practice to help others.  Input resources are selected by me and used by AI to generate output - daily reflections and tools.

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